2011/03/31

是我的问题,我想

如果你有看我的blog, 你应该看过吧。
我时常都埋怨,为什么大家都冲着我来发脾气。
我发现啊,这可能是我自己性格的关系。
虽然我不容易发脾气,
可是我也有脾气的;
我只是选择忍耐,
不想把事情弄大,
并想和平的解决事情。
你们就一直的冲着我发脾气,
如果我现在emotionally & psychologically breakdown 的话,
你们怎么办?
其实,
我的忍耐程度已经算是很高的了。
我的忍耐力threshold,
好像就要被你们达到了!
是我该佩服你们吗?
还是我要再提高我的忍耐度?
如果是这样,
那我不就是永永远远的被发脾气的那个吗?
我不发脾气,你以为我忍得到,
我发脾气,你又认为是我控制不好自己。
*sigh*

2011/03/28

今晚的风

今晚,
微风阵阵;
荡着家前的千秋;
微风和千秋的声音,
互相相应,
阖上双眼,
享受此刻的宁静;
用心想象,
如果,
陪伴着我的环境;
是小鸟的歌声,
和昆虫的叫声,
溪边的流水声,
还有树林里的清新空气;
可是,
那吵杂的汽车引擎声,
破坏了我想享受的!!

2011/03/25

Equality among gender, Equality among DOGS!!!

While people are fighting for their rights,
I would like to fight for my poor dogs as well.
Recently, my dad picked up few newly born dogs from the street and started rearing them. 
They are now turned up to be huge dogs. 
Although they were not those popular/breded dogs, but they were cute.
Here comes the issue, 
my mom doesn't allowed me to bring them home because she hates the dog's smell. 
Yes, I hate it too. *I'm scared of dogs too*
And, I don't want my mom to be too tired taking care of them since she's old. 
Thus, I didn't say much to that.
Well, here comes the problem,
my sister wanted to bring home a small size, breded/popular/higher class dog, *ya, right!*
and my mom didn't say much to that. 

But I did,
I made a huge issue out of it. 

Well, my dogs are dogs, so do the small dog! 

They were all DOGS!

The difference between them would be their "race"?? *in reality*
To apply this to real life/human situation, my dogs have unknown father/poorer parents. 
Other the other hand, the other dog has more popular/breded parents.
That's why,
some dogs/people deserved to be treated nicely as compared to the others?
Just because they have better parents?
Awwww, why do people/we have such discrimination in us?
*huge sigh*
Luckily, the dog is not in my house, yet.... *evil grins* =D

"Treat the world alike, treat the dogsS alike"
    

2011/03/24

你不知道我知道的事

昨天,听着爸爸和弟弟的对话,
我不知觉的想起,并深深体会到,
为什么老人家/老师都爱说:
“我恨铁不成钢。”
对话中,很明显的,我弟并不懂我爸要说的是什么意思,
还是他选择不懂,我爸就非常的激动/生气了。
我差一点就要说: " 爸,不是每个人都那么的醒目的。有些话,你要明说啊."
可是我选择了沉默,因为我不想家里吵吵闹闹。
我比较爱好和平,如非必要,我都回选择忍,忍,忍。

p/s:sheau wei, 我想最近,我脑子里太忙了,所以昨天才会显得那么的累吧。

2011/03/21

"Three Idiots" aka <三傻大闹宝莱坞>

一开始看这一部电影,就被它的歌词给吸引了。。。
虽然只是翻译,可是它的歌词写的很好。
不知道印度歌里是不是有这么多这一类型的歌词,
很有意思,也对生活很有帮助。
还没有看完,就已经觉得它是一部好看的电影了。
看完了,就觉得它真的很赞!!!
我觉得这部电影很适合给填鸭式教育国家的人看,
看一看究竟填鸭式教育方式所带来的后果。
我不否认这种方式有它的好,也有不好;
因为每一种教育方式都有好和不好;
只是因为很多人都习惯了用这种方式,而不试用别的方式/制度不应许。
这是很可悲的一件事。

好啦,回到电影,里面有很多情节我都意想不到。
可是我喜欢它用轻松和搞笑的方式来带出它想要表达的主题。
主题也很inspiring.
但是,它也有令人遗憾和伤感得的部分。
我的老师有说过,在人笑完了以后,就要立刻把你要表达的讯息说出来,
这样,他们比较容易记得。。。
我不知道这部戏的导演知不知这个research,
可是我觉得他拍的这部戏很好看。
Flashback 和回到现在的连接也做得很好,不会令人摸不着头绪。
有时间就看一看吧,
会带给你生活里一些宝贵的讯息的,
如果你懂得欣赏。

*Strive for excellence, and success will come to you*
*Find your passion in life and make it as your work*



2011/03/17

Movies & Dramas

I don't remember exactly when I started to have this habit...
Perhaps it was due to the assignments that I have to do during my college years...
I like to discuss/tell/write down what I think and get from the movie and drama after I watched each of them...
We used to have movie reviews as our assignments, but we need to apply psychology concepts while we analyze the movie...
But now, I would focus more on what impacts did the movies & dramas had on me/what ideas did they give/trying to portray in the movie and what do I think about it...
Thinking, I really do think that people should use their brain and start thinking...
Because I really find it hard to accept the fact that people don't think,
they just keep on living in their own life or world and refuse to accept what other thinks and says,
I don't know if I'm the one with problem because my level of tolerance is low?
But, I hate it when they don't listen to what other thinks and teased me with the word of me being abnormal,
I always kept silent and couldn't find a way to release all my dissatisfaction,
because they thought they were just joking and I shouldn't take it seriously,
obviously, I told them I don't like it but they thought that I was being too serious about it...
that's why I knew about it.
I don't use to think about the messages that the movies/dramas are trying to send, but I simply watched them and forget about them in the shortest time perhaps?
After hearing/reading so much on people telling others how a single movie had an impact on their life, I started to believe in what they say recently. I used to be ignorant about what they say as I thought that they were just exaggerating on their experiences so that it will capture people's eyes.
However, I now realized that "Yes, they do! good movies and dramas make an impact on people's life by either giving them an idea or affect them psychologically" 
and, even horror movies does that...
because there were serial killers who learned to kill they way that people do in movies... 

Happy New Year 2024

 今年對我來說是一個新開始, 因為我真的要結束我“念書”的日子了。 想得到很久的master也在去年得到了。 但是我沒有想像中的激動,開心一定的。 我現在面臨的問題確實身份曖昧, 我必須重新定義我的專業身份。 同時我的生活也有很多的不確定性。 如果要說,感覺上3天3夜都說不完。 ...