2019/10/28

生活和家庭那一个比较重要?

很多人会说家庭

但是我想说我不认同
在你反驳我前,请先看完

因为很多人会想都不想就说家庭
但是真的必须选择时,很多人都选择了金钱
为甚么呢?
我有一个个案
他们都经历了不安和觉得治疗好像没用的感觉
但是他们坚持了下来

最后他们好想花了2500吧,


可是很多人都会和我说,治疗好贵哦。
我想我们还是不需要了,毕竟我们只是吵吵架而已,
不需要治疗

无奈的我只能默默的挥手说你们可以回家再考虑看看哦。。。
心里却已是说再见。

2019/06/19

文化的传承与没落

最近我看了Phantom of the Opera的舞台剧,
看完了以后,我有一个感想/问号,
为什么西方的文化表演可以传承到今天,更发扬光大到东方国家,
可是我们马来西亚的一些文化传统却没能保留下来?
我想到的是大戏。
其实我不知道现在的小孩有多少人看过我们华人的大戏。
我觉得大戏和香港的粤剧很类似。
我不懂得如何解释什么是大戏,但是可以看这里:

之前就在报纸看到本地大戏团逐渐没落的报道。

我在想,
究竟这舞台剧和我们的唱大戏有什么分别?
为什么我们愿意花那么多钱去看这些源自西方的表演可是却本地的文化表演却逐渐的没落呢?
想了一想,其实保存我们的文化真的是一件很重要的事!
可是须要有心人啊。。。



2019/02/24

How did I end up travelling in Myanmar

When I told my family & friends that I will be travelling to Yangon, Myanmar in December 2018, the first question that most of them asked was, WHY?

Honestly, I don't have an answer to that question. Because my intention was to pay my colleagues a visit in their home country. Also, we have a few ex-colleagues who retired and I thought that it would be nice to visit & catch up with them. That's all.

However, that's not the end because we also need to plan for our trips there since my colleagues can't be with me ALL the time.

Before we decide to visit Myanmar, I didn't even know about a city named Bagan. Yangon was the only city that I know for Myanmar. Our initial intention was to visit our retired colleagues who resides in Yangon now, as well as paying our current colleagues a visit in their home country. Our intention was simple and little did I expect it to turn into such an amazing experience!

Since we were travelling as 2 girls only, our colleagues were concerned about our safety. So they actually looked for acquaintances who run travel business to arrange for the tour for us and their suggestion was to visit Bagan because it's one of the most famous tourist location.

Usually, I will do some research and surveys in different travel fairs and read some online blogs to decide on either signing up for a tour package, signing up for day tours, or travel by myself.
However, due to the short amount of time for planning and both my colleague and myself were busy with our work. We allowed our colleagues to give us suggestions and travel with what they have found for us. Although I was doubtful and was concerned about the price, I went ahead and confirmed since it will be a peak season travelling in Myanmar and it's their winter time, which was a perfect timing for their locals to travel there too!

And I have to say, maybe it was just an average tour for others, but I guess perhaps when I went for the tour without much expectation helped elevating my experience in Bagan!
The tour guide, Naing was really helpful and meets all our needs and wants (reasonable ones) and he will do the extra things needed to make us enjoy the tour.

By the way, he said that hes starting his own business and our tour with him will be the last tour for the company that he's working with. Then I thought that it'll be nice if there are people who support him when he's starting and I felt that by writing a blogpost, this is something that I can do to show my appreciation.

So if you're planning on a trip to Myanmar, do contact him via this email, naingmyanmar48@gmail.com.
Here's his photo, 

p/s: Because he doesn't know how I wanted my photo to be, so I'll usually take a photo of him and then tell him the take the same one. But... I'll let you judge yourself if there are similar.

Despite the photography skills, I'll definitely recommend his service because I'm sure about one thing, that he will try his best to make sure that you're trip with him is comfortable and worth the visit and he doesn't mind to go extra miles to fulfill your needs & wants!

I feel that some seasoned tour guides will do the bare minimal/the required things and will not care about you but just to complete their task just like completing a checklist,  I think I  know how to differentiate after travelling for a few times with a tour guide. Otherwise, maybe when they can get commission,  they'll do it and show you extra hospitality.

To be honest, I was hesitating and doubtful if it's worth it because it's expensive for a third world country initially. And yes, I'm speaking from living in a third world country myself.

But I will revel the cost of the trip where we were quoted a 3D2N tour for 285 USD.
In my mind, I was thinking "are you kidding me?" My 5D4N trip to Bangkok doesn't cost that much after including all the food expenses, flight ticket and hotel. But this alone costs me 285USD without food included and staying in a 2 star hotel. With the experience of temple hopping in Chiang  Mai,  I was thinking if I want to do something similar again.

However, my colleague from Myanmar was telling me that this is the standard price and when I go online, yes, some tour companies do show similar price range.
Thus, for my safety,  I've decided to go on with the plan.

Fortunately or unfortunately,  because I was travelling with a Muslim colleague,  so she doesn't take any photos with the templs and I'm privilege to have all the attention of the tour guide, and the driver. haha...

They were very accommodating to help me to take all the 38 photos although I did compromise on many of my photos too...because I feel bad to ask them to keep taking photos...

Last but not least,  I didn't regret this trip at all because even in my dream, I dreamt about the sunset after I'm back from Bagan!!!!! OMG!!!!
Words can't describe how I felt.
It was really a once in a lifetime experience that one cannot simply forgot.

Happy New Year 2024

 今年對我來說是一個新開始, 因為我真的要結束我“念書”的日子了。 想得到很久的master也在去年得到了。 但是我沒有想像中的激動,開心一定的。 我現在面臨的問題確實身份曖昧, 我必須重新定義我的專業身份。 同時我的生活也有很多的不確定性。 如果要說,感覺上3天3夜都說不完。 ...