2016/11/20

A Special Day Out!

Hmm, I don't usually post things like this but today has been the happiest day for me recently. 
There were just too many things going on in my life which is giving me a lot of stress and a hectic life.
I didn't really plan for this to happen but it just happened so naturally that after we went dinner with ms winnee the other day! 
While I was telling them how much I enjoyed Common Man Coffee Roasters when I was in Singapore last year and they're opening up a branch in KL, unexpectedly and unbelievably, ms winnee said that she'll go there with me.
Furthermore, I have been "harassing" the others in the FB group to go to Common Man with me but only Jeng Mun entertained me...hahaha...
 and then, it ended up that a special person actually went there with me! =)

Oh my gosh!!! Who would have thought that this is going to happen?
It didn't seem real to me at first as well, not until after the meet up this noon. 
I have been telling her that I'm scared to have lunch or dinner with her alone without the others because we might not have things to talk about or perhaps I just feel uneasy being with her alone or intimated for the fact that she was, and will always be my lecturer. 
She told us the other day that we can stop calling her "ms winnee" since she no longer teach in Help, but I guess that's just how we show our respect to her right?
Once a teacher, forever a teacher in our life!
Especially a respectable and a legendary one! =)

Well I guess over the year, we have got closer with each other and I'm more mature maybe, so we kinda talk like we are friends despite the fact that the status difference is still there, I think.
She still is my lecturer!!! 
But I do realized that I was getting more and more comfortable around her over the years and after today's lunch with her, with the only two of us, imagine that!
If that happens when I was still in uni, that would have triggered a lot of stress in me! 

I have decided to write it down today because today was definitely a memorable one!
Furthermore, we're going to some where special, the Common Man!!!
I have been wanting to pay it a visit ever since I knew that they are opening in KL!
*well those who understand it will understand*

The atmosphere was nice and it was a hippie cafe, this place is bigger as compared to the one in Singapore and the interiors are modern and adequately decorated. 
Furthermore, the coffee was nice too, according to ms winnee, my cousin said so too, I'm not an expert in coffee, so I'll not judge their coffee, but their french fries' cheese sauce was definitely beyond our expectation, it was finger licking good and really special too!!!
We both agreed that we'll miss the sauce, LOL.
In addition, we sat at table number 12, which was my birthday date,
this just makes this place and the whole thing more unforgettable...
It was a relaxing day for me and I enjoyed it so much because we just chat on some random thing and keep up with each other's life I guess. 
That's the beauty of having less people in gathering/meet up I think. 
But I guess it's also because the fact that it doesn't happen frequent, which makes it more precious and I really appreciate it, a lot. 
After all, it's really not easy for us to keep in touch with the people that we would like to keep in touch in life and as we grew older, we realize how difficult it is. 
Sometimes, when we want to keep in touch with some friends while there might be many different factors that hinder it.
Thus, I really appreciate it when we get to keep in touch with her over years and it's everyone's effort for keeping in touch actually. 
Because when one person is not making an effort or just decided to stop keeping in touch, our meet up will definitely end there. 
So far, we are lucky because we were able to meet at least once or twice a year, I think. 
I really hope that this will continue to happen in the future until the day when God no longer allows it to happen? I don't know, I just hope that we'll be able to spend more great times together in the future as it really helps me to get through the hectic life that I'm having and it adds colours to our life.     

By the way, their business is GOOD despite the fact that their food and drinks are pricier than an average cafe and we were both wondering who said that the economy is bad if we are viewing it from this place itself only?
Although we didn't have to queue for our turn (probably because there are only two of us), but there were a lot of customers come and go and I can foresee that this cafe is going to grow into one of the hottest whereabouts in town. 
But one disadvantage will be difficulty of getting parking there because we both took some time to get a parking spot as we all know, TTDI is a busy neighborhood!
and being Malaysians, nearest parking spot!!!
Personally, I'm not that bad like I used to be, I can tolerate walking a lot more nowadays. 
What can we expect, right? It's TTDI!
But we do realized that there is an underground parking space beside it after we were there, I wonder how much will it cost...
As for Sunday, the parking spots out there are free. 
So perhaps going there on a Sunday is a good plan because you don't have to fight with the working crowds and bank goers and parking spots are more easily available as compared to weekdays, I think.  

2016/11/01

"你不是一个很爱说话的人吧?"

曾经也有人说过在认识我以前觉得我事一个很静的人。
我的朋友听到的那一刹那都在爆笑。。。
那天我去facial的时候帮我第2次做facial的人就说了标题的那句话。
但是我有点认同他们口中所说的我。
其实我是一个很慢热的人,
所以在不熟的人的面前我不是一个多话的人。
在慢慢的熟悉了以后我才会开始多话。
而且大家都会觉得我很吵的程度。
自己一个人去旅行的时候也发现到其实不说话到让我感到平静。
虽然有时候也会觉得如果有朋友在身边一起聊天也还蛮不错的,
但是有时候又觉得其实有朋友的话就会觉得必须和朋友聊天,
不然又好像忽略了她,可是我有时候就是想要静静的不说话啊,
所以我还蛮自相矛盾的。
我小时候就有因为和朋友在上课时说太多话而老师不让我们坐一起。
可是我们都会和老师说以后不会了,让我们一起坐吧。。。
就这样,我对我自己的认知也是我是一个多话和很吵的人。
但是随着年龄的增长和对自己更深入的了解后,
其实我觉得我不是一个很爱说话的人。
对我来说,如果我们不是很熟的朋友,
有很多事情我都不会想要说啊。。。
我只是在和朋友聊天时才会说我想说的话
有时候,工作回家实在是太累时,我是连话都不想说的,
也只有想说一些一定要说的话时才会说,
不然就是配合别人在聊天,有些时候却会连配合都不想配合,
因为实在是太累了。
再加上最近都有很多事情在烦,
所以我更不想说话。
其实有时候,无声胜有声。
因为我都已经不知道说什么才是对的了。
更不知道什么事是该说的,和什么事是不该说的了。
我只能够默默的承受着和接受那些正在发生和将会发生的事情,
因为我一点控制的能力都没有。

Happy New Year 2024

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