2016/12/25

Merry Christmas 2016

因为种种关系,今年的我久违的到访了不同的shopping centre,
看到了很多不同的Christmas decoration. 
所以就分享一下照片吧。。。



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Merry Christmas & Happy New Year!
Hopefully, 2017 will be a great year ahead despite the positive and negative things that will and yet to happen. 

2016/12/05

December

Do you know what's so great about December?
Other than being a festive and holiday season for some, 
it also means less traffic for working people like me!!!
I guess that's why I like December so much.
Time flies and we are coming closer and closer to the end of this year.
Looking back, it has been another roller coaster year for me which I couldn't type all of them down in this post. 
But before I get busier or happily enjoying all the holidays, I wrote this post just for the sake of writing it so that the month of December doesn't appear as having no blog post at all. LOL
Hence the title of the blog post. 
Furthermore, I have been so busy over the weekends for these few weeks which is making me feel sick because I can sense that my immune system is going down.

Most importantly, Jengmun is getting married on the 10th of December and I'm really happy for her. 
We have been talking about this throughout last year and this year and I still remembered how we used to say it's so far away and she still has time to prepare for it and etc...
We have been through this process together with her and I am happy to be a part of her journey, although I didn't really do much for her.
At the same time, I am also grateful and felt appreciated by her because it was actually the very first time for me to be a "ji mui" for my BFF other than my family members. 
While there are many different friends who walk in and out of your life, 
there are only a few whom we will cherish throughout our life, and she definitely is ONE of them. 
After the other day's bridal shower for her, she talked about how long we have been friends and guess what, it has been a decade since we first met each other in college and it's still counting!!!!!
Hopefully, we can continue counting for the longest time possible~~~


2016/11/20

A Special Day Out!

Hmm, I don't usually post things like this but today has been the happiest day for me recently. 
There were just too many things going on in my life which is giving me a lot of stress and a hectic life.
I didn't really plan for this to happen but it just happened so naturally that after we went dinner with ms winnee the other day! 
While I was telling them how much I enjoyed Common Man Coffee Roasters when I was in Singapore last year and they're opening up a branch in KL, unexpectedly and unbelievably, ms winnee said that she'll go there with me.
Furthermore, I have been "harassing" the others in the FB group to go to Common Man with me but only Jeng Mun entertained me...hahaha...
 and then, it ended up that a special person actually went there with me! =)

Oh my gosh!!! Who would have thought that this is going to happen?
It didn't seem real to me at first as well, not until after the meet up this noon. 
I have been telling her that I'm scared to have lunch or dinner with her alone without the others because we might not have things to talk about or perhaps I just feel uneasy being with her alone or intimated for the fact that she was, and will always be my lecturer. 
She told us the other day that we can stop calling her "ms winnee" since she no longer teach in Help, but I guess that's just how we show our respect to her right?
Once a teacher, forever a teacher in our life!
Especially a respectable and a legendary one! =)

Well I guess over the year, we have got closer with each other and I'm more mature maybe, so we kinda talk like we are friends despite the fact that the status difference is still there, I think.
She still is my lecturer!!! 
But I do realized that I was getting more and more comfortable around her over the years and after today's lunch with her, with the only two of us, imagine that!
If that happens when I was still in uni, that would have triggered a lot of stress in me! 

I have decided to write it down today because today was definitely a memorable one!
Furthermore, we're going to some where special, the Common Man!!!
I have been wanting to pay it a visit ever since I knew that they are opening in KL!
*well those who understand it will understand*

The atmosphere was nice and it was a hippie cafe, this place is bigger as compared to the one in Singapore and the interiors are modern and adequately decorated. 
Furthermore, the coffee was nice too, according to ms winnee, my cousin said so too, I'm not an expert in coffee, so I'll not judge their coffee, but their french fries' cheese sauce was definitely beyond our expectation, it was finger licking good and really special too!!!
We both agreed that we'll miss the sauce, LOL.
In addition, we sat at table number 12, which was my birthday date,
this just makes this place and the whole thing more unforgettable...
It was a relaxing day for me and I enjoyed it so much because we just chat on some random thing and keep up with each other's life I guess. 
That's the beauty of having less people in gathering/meet up I think. 
But I guess it's also because the fact that it doesn't happen frequent, which makes it more precious and I really appreciate it, a lot. 
After all, it's really not easy for us to keep in touch with the people that we would like to keep in touch in life and as we grew older, we realize how difficult it is. 
Sometimes, when we want to keep in touch with some friends while there might be many different factors that hinder it.
Thus, I really appreciate it when we get to keep in touch with her over years and it's everyone's effort for keeping in touch actually. 
Because when one person is not making an effort or just decided to stop keeping in touch, our meet up will definitely end there. 
So far, we are lucky because we were able to meet at least once or twice a year, I think. 
I really hope that this will continue to happen in the future until the day when God no longer allows it to happen? I don't know, I just hope that we'll be able to spend more great times together in the future as it really helps me to get through the hectic life that I'm having and it adds colours to our life.     

By the way, their business is GOOD despite the fact that their food and drinks are pricier than an average cafe and we were both wondering who said that the economy is bad if we are viewing it from this place itself only?
Although we didn't have to queue for our turn (probably because there are only two of us), but there were a lot of customers come and go and I can foresee that this cafe is going to grow into one of the hottest whereabouts in town. 
But one disadvantage will be difficulty of getting parking there because we both took some time to get a parking spot as we all know, TTDI is a busy neighborhood!
and being Malaysians, nearest parking spot!!!
Personally, I'm not that bad like I used to be, I can tolerate walking a lot more nowadays. 
What can we expect, right? It's TTDI!
But we do realized that there is an underground parking space beside it after we were there, I wonder how much will it cost...
As for Sunday, the parking spots out there are free. 
So perhaps going there on a Sunday is a good plan because you don't have to fight with the working crowds and bank goers and parking spots are more easily available as compared to weekdays, I think.  

2016/11/01

"你不是一个很爱说话的人吧?"

曾经也有人说过在认识我以前觉得我事一个很静的人。
我的朋友听到的那一刹那都在爆笑。。。
那天我去facial的时候帮我第2次做facial的人就说了标题的那句话。
但是我有点认同他们口中所说的我。
其实我是一个很慢热的人,
所以在不熟的人的面前我不是一个多话的人。
在慢慢的熟悉了以后我才会开始多话。
而且大家都会觉得我很吵的程度。
自己一个人去旅行的时候也发现到其实不说话到让我感到平静。
虽然有时候也会觉得如果有朋友在身边一起聊天也还蛮不错的,
但是有时候又觉得其实有朋友的话就会觉得必须和朋友聊天,
不然又好像忽略了她,可是我有时候就是想要静静的不说话啊,
所以我还蛮自相矛盾的。
我小时候就有因为和朋友在上课时说太多话而老师不让我们坐一起。
可是我们都会和老师说以后不会了,让我们一起坐吧。。。
就这样,我对我自己的认知也是我是一个多话和很吵的人。
但是随着年龄的增长和对自己更深入的了解后,
其实我觉得我不是一个很爱说话的人。
对我来说,如果我们不是很熟的朋友,
有很多事情我都不会想要说啊。。。
我只是在和朋友聊天时才会说我想说的话
有时候,工作回家实在是太累时,我是连话都不想说的,
也只有想说一些一定要说的话时才会说,
不然就是配合别人在聊天,有些时候却会连配合都不想配合,
因为实在是太累了。
再加上最近都有很多事情在烦,
所以我更不想说话。
其实有时候,无声胜有声。
因为我都已经不知道说什么才是对的了。
更不知道什么事是该说的,和什么事是不该说的了。
我只能够默默的承受着和接受那些正在发生和将会发生的事情,
因为我一点控制的能力都没有。

2016/10/12

How ironic life could be?

之前做了第二次的RAI过后,
我的喉咙的一个区域在我吞口水时都会隐隐作痛。
医生有说如果痛得顶不顺就吃panadol来止痛吧。
我说,没关系,the pain is still bearable for me. 
所以我没有吃任何的止痛药。
现在不痛了。
可是接着来的就是经痛。
我的menstrual cycle一直以来都没有准过。
以前痛得顶不顺好像也没有吃过止痛药。
而且我也很久都没有试过痛得那么厉害了。
今天我连驾车回家都觉得腿软。
而且我痛到想要立刻吃下两颗panadol...
够讽刺吧!
可是我告诉我自己要忍耐,不可以随便的依赖药物。
所以我热敷,喝热水。
可是还是很痛。
痛到我必须躺下来休息。什么都做不了。
还睡了几小时。
过后现在还是在痛!
可是至少我可以坐在电脑前打字了。
但是中医明明就告诉我运动有助经痛,
可是为什么我还是那么的痛?!?!?
希望下次不要那么痛了。。。

2016/09/29

Again "烦"

别人去做gym运动都在lose fat, gain muscle;
偏偏我去做gym就连续两个月lose muscle, 
Lose muscle没关系,偏偏我还gain weight!
所以我的slogan大概就是lose muscle, gain weight.
那天房间里的体重器告诉我我重了。
我的defense mechanism立刻启动的问我姐体重器是不是坏了。
我姐还问为什么那么问?
我默默不语。
然后开始想我不应该skip那么多gym的?
再告诉我自己,人嘛,一定有胖和瘦的。。。
更何况我妈一直说她觉得最近我的腿有细了一点。
我都很奸诈的不回答,因为只有我自己知道其实我的体重上升了!
如果我告诉她的话,她的反应一定会很大,
然后不断的用她的方式来关心我的。
那就是骂我和不让我吃那么多。
还有在我吃饭时都会盯着我看然后说我胖得像猪了还一直吃之类的。
那天看到我的上师时,她关心我的健康之余,
也告诉我应该有好转吧,因为你看起来胖了。
胖!胖!胖!
什么???
看来我不能再欺骗我自己了,
要重新的开始去上body pump的class了。
之前偷懒,觉得body pump太累了,所以都只去上body combat.
现在又要开始上body pump了。。。
果然身体不会说谎啊~~~
可是有时候我上课时都会心不在焉的想,
其他人为什么那么勤劳的锻炼身体?
为什么要这样折磨自己?
如果不是因为健康问题,
我是不会这样来折磨自己的。
最重要的是,我还没有achieve到我的target weight和amount of muscle。
这条路好漫长哦,我好像都看不到终点。

2016/09/28

谢谢CK

刚才冲凉的时候遇到了一只不速之客, 小强。
我吓了一大跳,可是没有人可以救我。
一开始我拼命的把水泼向它,
可是它还是一直在动!
我真的真的很怕。
在我向它拼命泼水下,它反了过来。
所以它只能在原地懂,我心想我的机会来了。
要用拖鞋把它打死吗?
可是我没有勇气。
我想了一段时间后,我忽然想起CK说过,
用肥皂水来把小强杀死是最好的。
我情急之下就用了一个罐子和了洗衣粉后就慢慢的接近它。
当我把肥皂水倒在它的身上时,它反回了正常的方向,开始逃跑。
我情急之下就用罐子把它盖着,但是肥皂水却倒完了。
我到现在都还不知道它死了没有。
虽然我不确定肥皂水是不是真的有效,
可是这个方法至少让我鼓起勇气和成功的把它盖着,
然后我可以继续洗澡。

Happy New Year 2024

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