It's Me ~ 平凡人

2009/05/30

Addicted

I'm addicted to this korean show called "we're married"..I translated it from mandarin though, it might not be that accurate.. :p
Personally, I think it's quite fun watching it because I enjoy watching it and it seems to help me to release my stressesssssssssssss......
However, there's sad part in that show too... I just can't take it...
Yet, I still have the STRONG URGE to watch it...and I can't help myself...It does disrupt my daily living...thus...I concluded that I am addicted to it already....
I won't deny it....
Due to my super SLOW line...I've been through the longest 12 minutes ever just to see one of the couples met...OMG...As I've said earlier, I just can't help myself to resist from watching it although I am having mt midterms next week..
I'm scared +++++, at the same time wanting to watch this show!!!!!!

2009/05/28

己所不欲，勿施于人

这是我对这几天和朋友讨论后，我的想法。
成经我也有过类似的经验，不过，对方没有解释，并且当作没有一回事。
这，真的很令我受伤。
可是，我有一个比较好的解决方法。因为我会说出来！！！！
虽然说了会引起不必要的麻烦，可是，这是我的选择。你喜欢还是我喜欢？:p
其实，在这一次的事件里，我只能说，我只知道其一，不知道其他的。
所以，我是带着偏见来看这一次的事件的。
不过，我真的觉得有人作得太过分了。
这是我的看法，因为有人真的小看了自己所作所为会影响到别人。
是不是他们太过individualistic 呢？可是，这又不符合他们平时的形象。
I’M TOTALLY CONFUSED!!!!

2009/05/26

如果那个人对你不重要，那他说的话也不重要

你有没有陈经很介意人家所说的话而不开心过呢？你又有没有因为那些话而耿耿于怀呢？

‘如果有的话，那就代表那个说那些话的人对你很重要’。

因为我有一个朋友说，如果那个人对你不重要，那他说的话也不重要 (and vice versa)。

可是，我并不时100% 的认同这一句话。

因为，有时候，我们并不是重视那个人，或是在意那个人，
我们而是自私的纯粹在意自己的 image 和关心其他人如何看自己。

可是，又有人说，这样不是太幸苦了吗？难道你只为了人家的想法而活吗？

那么，在我看来，这些都要靠个人的适应能力了。

如果你可以只活在自己的世界里，那当然没有问题了。

可是，当你选择醒来时，你可能适应不到现实的残酷。

这就是现实。

2009/05/25

互相遷就

我覺得互相遷就是與人相處很重要的一個觀念。
可是，當某一方面不覺得另一方面在遷就他時，問題也就接踵而來。
一方面覺得我付出的很多，可是另一方又不珍惜，這真的會很令人傷心。
這不單單發生在愛情里，我覺得這發生在任何一種關系里。
朋友，兄弟姐妹，家人。。。

有時候，還為了顧及他們的感受而假裝不知道一些事情，其實我們又不是盲的，也不是聾的，很多事我們是知道的，千萬不要以為別人不知道。

如要人不知，除非己莫為。

Running my Experimentssssss

Here I am, in Ms Winnee's office, waiting for my participants to come for my experiment....

But, I was late!!!!

And the first session was canceled, then, another participant didn't turn up for my experiment....

So, I basically sat there doing nothing but blogging and surfing the web... :p

Isn't this fun???

How often can you sit in your lecturer's room alone and you are free to do anything??? :D

2009/05/24

Reflection Paper

I planned to finish my reflection paper before Sunday...Look at the time now..I just started to work on it...
I don't know how to write it, because I didn't really pay attention in class. :p
But I shall complete it soon so that I have enough time on my Thesis...
To be honest, I can now understand why my friend had a mild depression while she was completing her thesis...I can totally understand you now... :p
I don't like myself being so unproductive!!!!
Where are my energies and my enthusiastic back in those days???

p/s: This semester is boring to me too, despite the fact that I am doing my Thesis 2 this semester and had a really tight schedule, maybe it was due to the fact that we hang out too often last week. :p

2009/05/22

Hesitated

I'm not sure whether I should tell my friends about this blog because I don't really want people to read all my thoughts. But I find myself contradicting myself because "what's the point of a blog if I don't want people to read and see it??" Right??? okay, I shall 顺其自然....

Maybe I was just too boring being alone in my room ever since my sis left and I had no one to turn to in telling my random thoughts... I don't know...Let's see.. :p