2015/07/26

It's about Singapore again... 17 - 21 June 2015

I have the opportunity travelling to Singapore again mid-June because of a conference and I was actually looking towards it.

And I'm back, few days ago. It took me some time to write this because I was sick and things were going on. I don't seemed to have enough rest, but I'm writing this. This was my first conference and I was actually surprised that wines were served at the end of each day. It was fun meeting people from different countries and listening to their experiences in counseling. I enjoyed the chatting sessions!


This post was kinda delayed and delayed because of my health issues. Now that I feel better and healthier, I want to complete this happy post as soon as possible. =) Owh, I have been neglecting this for so long~~~

Well, other than the conference, I actually have the opportunity to stay in Marina Bay Sands Singapore this time round, which is also a prestigious hotel. It was famous for it's infinity pool and also a sky park. When I went to Singapore with Jeng Mun in January, we were standing opposite this hotel admiring the magnificent building and discussed how we wished to stay there the next time we visit Singapore. Well this time round, it was a wish came true and I stayed in there and I actually asked my friend to join me since good things are meant to be shared and happiness are meant to be shared! My cousins will be there too!

The stated check-in time is 3 pm but I reached around 2 pm and they allowed me to check-in. So it was good, but they don't have a room which is on the same level as my cousin. I was reluctant to take the room at first, but anyway, because I'm too tired, I took the room. It was on tower 3, level 33. My cousin's room is on level 39. Hmm, level 33 is not a good level because I have to transfer to another escalator to go to level 57 for the infinity pool and sky park. But compared to those with a lower level, maybe level 33 is not too bad at all. The air conditioning in the room was great because it was too cold that I have to open the balcony door to lower the temperature of the room and it actually has a smart design that when you actually open the balcony door, the air condition will be stopped. 
My room was facing the Garden's by the Bay. It was a good view because it's not noisy during the night. Here are some of the pictures I took using a selfie stick for the FIRST time!



My skill was not that good. But I guess you can still see the garden? ;p


The infinity pool!!!
It was actually quite gloomy that afternoon and it was COLD up there!


My friend, Lai Ying. 
The morning before we check out. =)


The weather was much better and I can feel the heat merely by looking at this picture!


The very first night there!


My cousin and I.


We were resting in my cousin's room while waiting for her brother...


Lai Ying didn't want to get into the pool originally but ended up with me in the pool... lol


The night scenery was really great! We can even see the merlion up there!
But it was really COLD~~~





Then, on Saturday morning, my cousin brought me to a cafe named Common Man Coffee  Roasters.
However, this cafe was not as common as it's named.
The food there was really nice and my cousin said that they provide the best coffee around there.
This place is so famous that queuing is common there and there were people come and go.
It was really busy and I think the owner there doesn't have to worry about having no business/customers.



 My hot chocolate. =)



Our Turkish breakfast. 
The portion was really big and I was feeling so full after finishing everything. 
Someone told me that this is expensive and doesn't worth it but I think the prices are around the same as KL's cafe and if you don't convert, it wasn't really expensive, I think. 

Another highlight of my trip to Singapore is this, 

LLAO LLAO!


I'm sure you have heard me saying this because llao llao is only available in Singapore and the "raffaello" sauce is so nice!!!


My cousins are llao llao's big fan too~~~
I have had llao llao 3 times when I was there this time!


The journey comes to an end on that Sunday where CK was so nice to send me off to the airport...
We had a quick lunch before I came back to Malaysia at Terminal 3, but I don't remembered the name of the fried chicken that we had! Oh my, I have left this post for too long!
But the fried chicken was really nice and I really enjoyed it so much! But it can be very heaty because it's fresh from the oil! They are at the right size and I was able to finish all 3 of them.


Look who I met when I was in Terminal 3!!!
Hahaha, it was a surprise for me. 

This trip was so tiring for me that the moment I boarded the plane, I dozed off! Gosh, can you imagine that? I didn't even finish watching the air stewardess' safety measures and what to do if emergency happens. I tried so hard to remained my eyes open but I failed. My eyes weren't in my control at all! And the strangest thing is, I don't usually sleeps in plane because I don't feel comfortable and I just can't get any sleep when I'm in a plane in the past.
When I actually woke up, it was due to the announcement by the captain asking cabin crew to get ready for landing. What?
Hmm. I guess this trip was maybe just too tiring for me and I walked too much maybe?

2015/07/14

粽子*榴槤*神秘禮物

因為在端午節期間去了一趟新加玻,所以我只吃到了一顆粽子而已!
粽子是我最愛吃的季節性食品啊~~~
心理很不平衡。。。
可是這樣的不平衡心態很快就被榴槤給化解了,
我在兩個星期里,差不多每天都在吃榴槤。
我因為怕熱氣和喉嚨痛,所以我非常的勤勞的在和鹽水和蜂蜜水。
但是惡夢終於都發生了, 我在上星期六就已經感覺到不舒服了,可是我心想,很可能就只是發熱氣而已啦,吃了panadol應該就會好了吧。
但是直到星期日為止,我只感覺到我的喉嚨約來約痛,連吞下食物都不行。這幾天的睡眠品質也很不好。
星期一一大早, 我第一件做的事就是去看醫生, 為什麼星期日不去看嗎?我去到的時候他們已經不收病人了,話說醫生也感時間。
Haih...
終於在星期一看到醫生時,他說either進醫院吊點滴或是吃他給的藥。

我不是已經說了嗎!我的喉嚨痛到也腫脹到很大,我也覺得很難受了。
他問我要去selayang還是parkcity的醫院時,我立刻說我要去parkcity,因為我真的等不到太久了, 我一回到家就叫醒我姐,大約等了半小時候,她就準備好了,當我从客廳走到車的半路不到, 我連站都站不穩,雙腳都還在抖。我還要我爸扶著我上車。
雖然parkcity說近不近說遠不遠,但是那段路好像真的很長!!!
幸好當時只有我一個人啊! 但是她們在took some time to register me and poked an IV line for me after measuring my bp,pulse, and temperature. 我竟然燒到40.7℃啊~
Pulse140++,因為我還沒有吃我hyperthyroidism的藥。。。
過後她們也給了我paracetamol來減低我的body temperature...
其實她們在外面討論我的bloodtestresult時,我都有聽到一點點,但是又不一定是真的。
過後,在A&E的MO就跟我說要在抽多一次血來驗多一次。
報告出來以後, 那個MO說我很可能性有leukaemia,因為我的bloodcount全部都很低,抱括了我的WBC&RBC...我的WBC低到只剩下0.4-0.6罷了。。。
我聽到了以後其實還蠻害怕的, 但是過后當他們發現到原來他們overlooked了我的hyperthyroidism和我爸爸是thalassemia carrier時, 他們就知道應該不會是leukaemia了。。。
我當下松了一口氣啊。。。
大約12中午, 在A&E待了大約3個小時后, 我進到了病房。 可是我真的很不習慣。。。
醫生說,他admit我是因為viral infection,因為我正在吃的hyperthyroidism的藥使我的immune system变差了。。。


2015/06/13

Blessing in Disguises

Well, it has been a difficult year for me, 
I'm turning 29, and what was happening through these few months weren't really exactly what I thought it would be...
I graduated from my masters last year, 
then I thought I would like to start my PhD and get a job.  
But, getting a decent job offer was difficult, 
there were interviews, but no news actually came back to me.
The amount of applications I made were really a lot that I actually lost count... 
I was so desperate last month that my friends and I scheduled a trip to Genting just to get drunk. 
*Iknowthisisnotagoodbehavior*
The reason was I have never been drunk, 
so I thought maybe getting drunk might help me to forget things that are happening now... like being jobless...
All my other friends were kinda employed and started working, 
I feel happy for them... But I also felt even more desperate...
Well I'm not exactly jobless, I know many people thought I do, 
but I was actually helping in my dad's office and doing some volunteering work.

Last month, there was also a moment that I just felt like leaving Malaysia and go for a long holiday maybe... 
But I quickly realized that trying to get away from all these is not a good idea, 
so I continued to send job applications...

Then, a "strange" part-time offer came in, it wasn't a good offer,
and things ended up quite awfully. 
I felt abandonment, so I was quite unhappy... 

Then this week, my birthday falls on a Friday, 12/6, and I'm turning 29 before I'm 30. 
On Monday, I received a call from a company and scheduled an interview on Tuesday, 
an email scheduling an interview on Thursday. 
Then I realized maybe losing the part-time job is a blessing in disguise. 
and I stopped feeling bad about it. 
But I was lost on Thursday and was late for my interview... 
*ohcrap*

Then,
on Thursday, 
I was officially diagnosed with hyperthyroidism and I started taking medications right away. 
But on that very evening, I received a call saying that my offer letter was out!

OH MY GOSH!!!

I was like what, another blessing in disguise? I really can't believe it!!!
Although things are unofficial for now, but I think it really is a blessing before I actually turned 29...
Then I told everyone who are close with me about this because it's so exciting!!!

My family also celebrated my 29th birthday on Thursday night itself, 
and I started thinking that can anyone's life get any better... 
*PraisetheLord*

Friday evening,my cousin told me about promotions in Marina Sand Bay Singapore since I'm going to Singapore next week for a conference. The promotion was really good and I will spend a night there. It was really a great promotion and I'm really excited about it right now. 

Again, could anyone's life be any better than this? 

All these blessings in disguise... How can I not love it? 
Just like the Chinese idiom, 塞翁失马,焉知非福.
At the same time, I am reminding myself of being moderate and to avoid 乐极生悲.
After all, I am beginning to be independent finally. =)


On Friday night, I went dinner with my friends and we had a wonderful night together!
Therefore, here I am at 1:13am, not asleep, I know this is not good for my health, so I better finish this fast and move on...



This is me, making a wish, hopefully,
the dreams come true day will come to us at the right moment. =)
This was such a memorable week for me because there were so many ups and downs,
what I actually learned from this experience was to Be Grateful of everything we have and what we faced each day because we never really know whether these are blessings in disguise/an experience that help us grow...
It's just that we have not realized it in the way it should be...
If you believe that everything happen in our life for a reason...

Have faith, 
everything will get better each day. 

Faith.

p/s: This is another counting my blessings post. I think I will keep doing this.

2015/06/08

The Owls Cafe

这间cafe位于Bukit Jalil, 因为在Serdang的公公家做对年,
所以就在仪式完了以后顺便到这里喝茶,
毕竟如果从我家到这里的话实在是太远了。

而且我也大概是第一次排队排了那么久,
排了45分钟才进到店里。
整整的45分钟啊~~~
平时的我是不可能会这样排队吃东西的。
可是既然都来到了,
所以唯有硬着头皮的等啦。
平时我通常都会make reservations,就是要避免这样等。
当然也有一些地方是没有reservation system的,
通常如果是这样的店我都会早到/有时候经过看到没有人的时候才进去吃/直接选其他的。
没有必要一定要吃到。
如果是一定要吃到的话就会选择当最早到的客人。

这里的食物不算便宜,
和一般cafe的价钱相差不大,
所以对我来说,偶尔吃一吃这些就好了。



上面的macaroon很不错,雪糕也很特别,
尤其是一个不懂什么口味的,
就是那只有一球雪糕的waffle的上面,
很好吃,又不会太甜,吃进口里有微微的香气,
太不错了!


这里是很适合拍照的地方,
我也发掘了我电话的新拍照功能,
大概可能是我太低能忙了吧,
*开玩笑,怎么可能*
所以用了大约一年才发现到自己的手机有这样的功能。。。



淑云也用了她手机的新app来帮我拍照,
这些照片简直就很有feel!!!




所以我也很做作的扮成忧郁样...lol
忽然觉得自己还蛮不错的嘛,
很久没有这么做作的拍照了.
还是宝刀未老。
*忽然觉得自己好老噢*
当然也要谢谢淑云不厌其烦的帮我拍照啦~~~
p/s: 淑云是谁?她是我弟的太太啦!

This is a counting my blessings post.

2015/05/23

"Beautiful"/Confusing Quotes

最近看到一些很有意义的quotes,

"Life is not about finding yourself, it's about CREATING yourself."

So, what do I want to become?
I asked myself when I saw the quote.
I am not sure and I don't know.
That's my answer to the question.
After putting some thoughts in it, I realize that since I am creating myself, I can choose whatever I want to do.
Be it escaping from the issues here or trying to live a better live elsewhere,
I should get to choose.
Yes, I choose.

"I always wonder why birds stay in the same place when they can fly to anywhere in the world. Then, I asked myself the same question. "

我,
对号入座了。

"Don't count the days, make everyday counts."

This is so hard. 

2015/05/14

芭蕾&Orchestra

在没有任何expectation之下我去看了这场表演,
可是他们的第一首歌就已经让我觉得很震撼。
他们开始得很顺,虽然我的音乐造诣不高,
但是我听得出他们的表演很好听。=)
而且还有女高音和芭蕾舞者的表演。
他们的表演都很出色,
况且,这是我第一次看到现场真人的芭蕾舞表演leh...
而且还是专业的表演~~~
这太过令我惊喜了,=)
而且他们表演得很精湛,
女主角的脚应该很痛吧,
她必须用脚尖来平衡自己(踮脚站很久)和转圈,
但是我也见识到了芭蕾舞者的坚持,
他们一定坚持了很久才有今天的舞功吧。。。
而且她未免也太瘦了,
应该和Black Swan里的女主角一样,
为了不发胖而每天只靠一颗苹果来为生的那种diet吧。。。
但是overall,我很满意那天的这样的一个机会,
I guess this might be the something that's beautiful in my everyday life.


*cherish.appreciate.blessings*

2015/05/05

“死”

今天和我妈吵了几句,
原因不重要,
重要的是她常常都会说她去死了会更好,
因为没有人会再烦我们了。
对我来说,我没有这样的意思,
我只是告诉她,
“很多时候,她说的话只会令对方和她吵架,
那不如不说更好,因为吵架很烦,很累。”
当她说她要去死的时候,
我想,其实只要我不在就好啦。。。
只不过种种原因让我不得不留在这里,
如果有机会,我早就离开了,
不会留在这个鬼地方的。
可是我并没有告诉她我的想法,
因为这对她来说并不重要。
而且我已经在一步步的朝我要的方向了,
所以,我只需要等到时机成熟就可以。
现在的我只能一直忍,忍,忍好了。

PS:那时候的我好想立刻到飞机场买张机票,立刻飞离这里,而我的目的地是美国纽约,因为我想看一看Statue of Liberty和问一问,我何时才可以得到真正的liberty.


Happy New Year 2024

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