你不知道我知道的事

昨天，听着爸爸和弟弟的对话，

我不知觉的想起，并深深体会到，

为什么老人家/老师都爱说：

“我恨铁不成钢。”

对话中，很明显的，我弟并不懂我爸要说的是什么意思，

还是他选择不懂，我爸就非常的激动/生气了。

我差一点就要说: " 爸，不是每个人都那么的醒目的。有些话，你要明说啊."

可是我选择了沉默，因为我不想家里吵吵闹闹。

我比较爱好和平，如非必要，我都回选择忍，忍，忍。

p/s：sheau wei, 我想最近，我脑子里太忙了，所以昨天才会显得那么的累吧。

"Three Idiots" aka <三傻大闹宝莱坞>

一开始看这一部电影，就被它的歌词给吸引了。。。

虽然只是翻译，可是它的歌词写的很好。

不知道印度歌里是不是有这么多这一类型的歌词，

很有意思，也对生活很有帮助。

还没有看完，就已经觉得它是一部好看的电影了。

看完了，就觉得它真的很赞！！！

我觉得这部电影很适合给填鸭式教育国家的人看，

看一看究竟填鸭式教育方式所带来的后果。

我不否认这种方式有它的好，也有不好；

因为每一种教育方式都有好和不好；

只是因为很多人都习惯了用这种方式，而不试用别的方式/制度不应许。

这是很可悲的一件事。

好啦，回到电影，里面有很多情节我都意想不到。

可是我喜欢它用轻松和搞笑的方式来带出它想要表达的主题。
主题也很inspiring.

但是，它也有令人遗憾和伤感得的部分。

我的老师有说过，在人笑完了以后，就要立刻把你要表达的讯息说出来，

这样，他们比较容易记得。。。

我不知道这部戏的导演知不知这个research，

可是我觉得他拍的这部戏很好看。

Flashback 和回到现在的连接也做得很好，不会令人摸不着头绪。

有时间就看一看吧，

会带给你生活里一些宝贵的讯息的，

如果你懂得欣赏。

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Movies & Dramas

I don't remember exactly when I started to have this habit...

Perhaps it was due to the assignments that I have to do during my college years...

I like to discuss/tell/write down what I think and get from the movie and drama after I watched each of them...

We used to have movie reviews as our assignments, but we need to apply psychology concepts while we analyze the movie...

But now, I would focus more on what impacts did the movies & dramas had on me/what ideas did they give/trying to portray in the movie and what do I think about it...

Thinking, I really do think that people should use their brain and start thinking...

Because I really find it hard to accept the fact that people don't think,

they just keep on living in their own life or world and refuse to accept what other thinks and says,

I don't know if I'm the one with problem because my level of tolerance is low?

But, I hate it when they don't listen to what other thinks and teased me with the word of me being abnormal,

I always kept silent and couldn't find a way to release all my dissatisfaction,

because they thought they were just joking and I shouldn't take it seriously,

obviously, I told them I don't like it but they thought that I was being too serious about it...

that's why I knew about it.

I don't use to think about the messages that the movies/dramas are trying to send, but I simply watched them and forget about them in the shortest time perhaps?

After hearing/reading so much on people telling others how a single movie had an impact on their life, I started to believe in what they say recently. I used to be ignorant about what they say as I thought that they were just exaggerating on their experiences so that it will capture people's eyes.

However, I now realized that "Yes, they do! good movies and dramas make an impact on people's life by either giving them an idea or affect them psychologically" 

and, even horror movies does that...

because there were serial killers who learned to kill they way that people do in movies... 

《秘密花园》2011

最近看了韩国很受欢迎的一部电视剧，

《秘密花园》

男主角就是玄彬，而女主角是河智苑。

虽然一开始就觉得是一部很typical的电视剧，

就像男女交换身体，然后闹出了笑话，

富有的人和穷人的爱情故事，

情侣因误会而分开，其中一方展开报复，

到最后发现是误会，就和好了。

就看以上我列出来的点，就觉得像一部普通的戏剧。

可是，它的结局有令我另眼相看。

也是一部好笑又包装得不错的电视剧。

看完了以后，我。。。

我有被里面朱元架的那辆BMW的angel eye电到。真的很美。。。*我的眼睛在发光*

看到河智苑驾着它的时候，真的很想很想试驾了。。。

喜欢戏里的对白，里面讲的话都很适合我听，因为都是些带刺的话。 =）

我姐说我说了太多有刺的话了，所以现在都不会说一些正常一点的话。

哈哈。。。 ;p

再一次在戏剧里见识到“最毒妇人心”这一句话。

那女人真的很恐怖，做了很多东西，就为了报复。

可是，这是因为她爱他爱得很深，所以才会那么的恨他，

然后才做那么多事情来伤害他吗？

如果你有看，就会知道她是做到了什么地步来伤害他，

而在背后又帮助他。

看到玄彬戏里的家，很喜欢，

因为那个家，有一个让人感到很peace的感觉；

我想，以后我的家，如果可以，一定要有落地玻璃，

住在郊外一点也无所谓，

因为我希望可以用那落地玻璃来看那漂亮的天空和景色。 =）

永远在一起，其实，当吉罗琳昏迷时，而她的灵魂在朱元里，

我觉得那也可以视为两个人永远在一起了，

只不过一个没了灵魂，

而另一个没了肉体，

可是，

至少他们知道他们是在一起的。

而不会发生变心或是外遇的问题。

原来人鱼公主是《Little Mermaid》的翻译，也是一个悲剧。

我们都被Disney的版本给deceived了。

最后Ariel并没有和王子在一起，

她选择了牺牲自己而不是去杀了和另一个公主结婚的王子。

她好伟大哦。。。

说起fairy tales，就想到Grimm's Fairy Tales。

我看到女主角的名字“吉罗琳”的时候，就觉得和“Grimm's ” 很像。

戏里的人都把 “吉罗琳”pronounce 得很像 “Grimm”。

HuiYi&Mia，

Cinderella, Thumbling, Sleeping Beauty, Rapunzel 都是在Grimm's Fairy Tales里的。

这出戏的结论之一，每一个人都有他们的magic moment。

只是出现在不同的时间罢了。

啊，那我那像魔幻般的moment，

又何时会到来我的面前呢？

还有，这出剧里有令人印象深刻的对白。

有很多都觉得它很好，很够贱，

因为太久了，就把只能记得的写下吧。 =)

• 朱元发现吉罗琳的上司（导演）对她有意思后，

对导演说：“到死也不准你对我告白。”

（他是用吉罗琳的身体来对导演说这句话的）

• 我有被这一句话刺激到，觉得他真的是很贱，虽然我喜欢这出戏里的贱对白，可是我觉得他太衰了。那时候的他，又不是吉罗琳的谁，凭什么那么说！而且，他也不了解导演对于吉罗琳来说，是几重要的存在。导演就像吉罗琳的家人一样，他的一句话，也影响了导演和吉罗琳的关系。幸运的是，这是一出好结局的韩剧，所以到最后当然是大团圆结局啦。导演也知道了说这句话背后的人... :D

• 朱元对他的妈妈说：

“就算后悔，也会带着后悔和她一直生活下去。”

• 他的母亲试图用钱和地位来控制他的婚事，然后诉他，叫他以后不要后悔。而他就说了这句话。事问现在还有几个人会这样做？还是因为我还没有遇到/见过啊？如果大家都这样，离婚率就不会高啦。可是，我还是相信有这样的人，虽然可能很少。
• 我觉得这句话能用在很多不同的时候，也可以用来时时刻刻的警惕自己。我们的生活都是由我们的选择而来，所以，就算后悔，也带着它一直的生活下去吧！不要一直执著于那无论是对或错的选择，因为机会和时间不会重来。

High vs Low Cognitive Functioning

I believe that I've always been living in my own world...

Yet, I'm not totally detached from the world around me too...

I'm surprised with the people I met few days ago,

who claimed to study overseas before and works in a bank doing "investment",

where he can be such ignorant to what other says and think...

now I realized the difference between high and low cognitive functioning.

I'm not claiming that I'm a high cognitive functioning person but I'm pretty sure that I'm not low.

I now can't agree more with what my friend said, perhaps it was because we faced with highly cognitive functioning people too often enough when we were in college which makes us feel  as compared to them.

I didn't expect someone at the age of older than me for 2 years would be such NOT high cognitive functioning.

Hopefully, those who invested under him would earn more money under him... =)

and I will not choose that bank to invest for me when I have money in the future... 

14.02.2011 *It's Valentines Day*

Well, I didn't really thought about it when I suggested to my friends to have dinner today...

Instead, I put whether all of us are free and could make it to the dinner as the first priority since my friend is leaving on Wednesday....

I feel so sorry for her that I didn't really spend time with her shopping, chatting, singing, etc with her...

Until I saw those valentine's day posts in fb, I realized that today was quite a big day for couples out there in a sudden! *something knocks on my head*

It was quite a busy cny for me as I have something to do throughout the 15 dayS of Chinese New Year...

I have never been this busy throughout my cnyssSSS as far as I could remember!!!

and I didn't even have time to visit my friends' houses for cny....

Nevertheless, I'm very proud of what I have done throughout this Chinese New Year as  I thought that I'm quite productive..

I had a surprise birthday party in Port Dickson for a friend of mine in which I have known her since I'm 9 years old... --> YuhChyi...happy happy birthday! *on 12nd Feb 2011*

Also, I spend tonight with a special friend of mine --> WanYin, in which I played with her in the playground in Desa Park City,  together with another 2 friends of mine, GinKiat and PeiSan...

I guess this could be a very special memory for all 4 of us where people around us were mostly couples and families....hahahaha....

Sadly, Sweetyan and Beelee was not able to attend tonight's dinner...

Lastly, I would hope that

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*We Will Be Friends Forever* =)

 

最近的我

最近的我，有点情绪失控。。。

情绪管理也有点糟糕，时不时地情绪爆发。

表情管理也不大好。。。*sigh*
虽然新年有见到很久不见的朋友们，
可是，快乐怎么那么的遥远呢？
我的要求也不高啊，
可是事情怎么就不能如我意呢？
*canhappinessbefoundordoesitcomefromwithin*

我的假面具怎么就不能好一点呢？

看来要再进步了，不然，很容易被看穿。。。
*好想大哭一场，很可惜，我已经忘记了怎么哭*
*我的人生很可悲吧？*
*或许是我长大了吧？*
*知道哭是不能够解决问题*
*而我*
*最重要的责任是*
*解决问题*
*很可笑吧*